I once dated a guy and he just voluntarily told me about his past. And my thoughts were, "And what should I do with this information? Does he want me to respond to this in some way?" Maybe he wanted me to tell him about my past also, but I didn't do it. He never asked.

If I'm dating someone and he's already asking about my past, it speaks more about his insecurities. I think if you are a confident person, man or woman, I'm not sure if that question is necessary to ask. But this is my personal opinion.

Diah Rani Handayani
Diah Rani Handayani

Written by Diah Rani Handayani

Indonesian woman living and sharing life stories from the land down under. Contact me on email rany.budi@gmail.com or Instagram @minombrerany

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